You are negative for HSV1. Your HSV2 is a low positive and would need confirmatory testing with a Western Blot or Biokit.
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Herpes/low-positives---confirmatory-results/show/1097724#post_5968138 is a prior post on low positive hsv2 results that we have ongoing here that contains more information for more reading on why confirming your infection is important with a result that low. I'd encourage you both to read it.
Had you had prior sexual partners? If not, logically you are HSV negative if your wife is. As to a "hard lump", that doesn't typically describe herpes. A swab/culture should have been done if the doctor suspected herpes. But regardless, get the confirmatory test if you've had other sexual partners, and don't be surprised if it's negative.