Help me please!

[Brownii]

Lately I have had a ripping pain like right above my pee hole I guess you could say where the skin meets in front of it and sometimes when I'd pee and the pee hit it it would hurt for a second but couldn't see anything there... Also one day I noticed I was having a bad pain like that in the back of my inner lips I think it's called the urethra and I noticed a white head looking bump there and right below it was a red ulcer looking bump... Since then I have had a few white head looking bumps come up on my outer lips where the hair grows... It's not itchy at all actually they sometimes bother me... But can anyone tell me if they think this could be herpes or if it somehow is just little white heads?

[Brownii]

So I went to see the doctor & she checked and said it was nothing and I asked her some about it and she said it was probably just zits. Thanks for all your help (:

[gracefromHHP]

you need to be seen today or tomorrow and get a proper work up done. If this is herpes, you need seen as early as possible for proper testing as well as treatment so you are in pain for a shorter time.

odds are that neither you nor your partner were ever tested for herpes before. certainly worth you both getting type specific herpes igg blood tests done to see who has what too.

stop back and let us know how your appointment went :)

grace

[Brownii]

Also my partner said he hasn't had any problems or anything.. But I heard they can be dormant and people can go without having break outs and stuff... So yeah I'm a bit concerned...