If your Valtrex is definitely keeping your symptoms down, then you probably have a virus that responds to it - certainly possibly HSV.
If you have had these bumps longer than 48 hours, a swab may come back with a false negative. If you have a fresh lesion, get them swabbed right away.
HSV-1 can be contracted from a kiss, but it would not cause genital outbreaks. The virus does not "cross the equator" from above to below the waist, or vice versa. It can, however, be transferred to the genitals via oral sex, and would then be considered genital HSV-1. 1/3 of all new genital infections are caused by HSV-1. Less commonly, it can be transferred via genital-to-genital contact, as it does shed genitally, though not as often as orally.
I doubt your genital symptoms are HSV-1, if you've had a lifetime of cold sores. Your antibodies would protect you against re-infection elsewhere on your body. It could be a new infection of HSV-2, if you had sex with a new partner who is positive for type 2, AND you had your blood test earlier than 4 months past the last time you had sex. Herpes can present in any number of ways, and in fact could be a mild first episode in cases in which the patient had a prior oral HSV-1 infection, as you did. However, your symptoms could also be from other conditions. See a doctor to rule out other causes.
I highly recommend another reliable blood test now, preferably the Western Blot, which would be conclusive. Antibodies to HSV-2 would certainly have generated enough to trigger a positive result, if you are carrying the virus at all. If you've ever had chickenpox, you should also ask your doctor whether your earlier symptoms could have been due to shingles.
Good luck to you - I hope you find both the cause and relief soon.
Hi, herpes sores are not on both sides but only one and they donot remain nonstop. You need to find out what the bumps are so have them swabbed or scrapped and have a PCR test performed.