You are at no risk of HSV from this type of activity. Breathe easy you are in no danger of any std.
Herpes sores progress quickly. In a day or two. They form a fluid filled blister that pops and then scabs up and takes a while to heal. Usually ten days or so. This is the season for dry skin. I grt this as well. Also herpes lesions are painful as well. Again the symptoms you describe do not sound like hsv and again I am positive you did not acquire hsv from her rubbing her breasts on you.
Most hsv will present itself within a week so all the odds are stacked in your favor.
Please don't worry about this and you are probably causing the issues you describe by inspecting yourself frequently. You did not contract hsv from this exposure. ..for that I am sure.
It is my understanding that if she had herpes, she is able to spread it to anyone that makes contact with the skin where there is an infection. There do not need to be any visible signs of herpes to pass the infection to another person.
That is true but woman do not get hsv on the breasts.
Next they need to be shedding the virus at the time. Maybe 10-20% of days and lastly even if all that was going on most exposures still do NOT lead to transmition.
So please know the facts before jumping on someones thread with spoty facts. That will scare someone who really has no chance of hsv from this type of exoosure!
If you are concerned over your exposure then please start your own thread. One of us will be more than happy to help you out. If your exposure was the same as the op than you have nothing to worry about.