I have a similar story to most, I had a one time fling with a woman who afterward informed me she had herpes. Up until this time I have been STD free by blood work. As of 18 days later I do not have any signs of outbreak, and she had no lesions at the time. However I had oral sex with her and in my hypersnesitivity to an outbreak I looked closely at my lips and noted cluster of small (1mm or less) whitish spots on my upper lip primarlily near the lateral commissure. I currently do not have any tingling or pain and not lesion seem to be developing, but my concern is that I am still "incubating" and an outbreak is coming soon. I would love to hear another explanation for said spots so I can stop worriyng. I am told by the partner that she has never infected anyone that she knows of, but I am still concerned. Are these white spots a pre-herpes out break sign. I did not note then until 10 days ago, but i never looked before either. I have had some periodontal disease with small peridonatal abcesses and perhaps they are simply bacterial lesions.