Hi,
A little over a year ago, I developed a fairly large bump on my outer vulva. It was red but only hurt to the touch. Obviously, I should have gone to my doctor immediately, but embarrassed and in denial, I didn't do anything. The bump lasted for about a month and a half then disappeared.
Nothing happened for 7 months, however I was convinced I had genital herpes. Finally I decided to get tested for everything (all blood tests), and I was positive for HSV 1. However, the nurse told me that they do not really consider HSV 1 as a STD because most of the population has it, since it is fever blisters. I told her that I never had any fever blisters, and she said many people have the virus and show no symptoms. Therefore, I assumed I didn't have genital herpes, but that I did have oral herpes, despite never having an outbreak.
After this, I shaved my genital area and noticed a raised area where my previous bump had been. Almost like a scar? However, my original bump never blistered or formed a scab.
In the past month, I decided to go to my gynecologist and be completely honest with my history, in part because I thought I had another outbreak. The "scar" that I had seemed to become fuller and become a more noticeable bump. I told her about the bump that I had had, and that I tested positive for HSV 1 (I had discovered you could have genital HSV 1). I described all my symptoms and she said that she was skeptical that it was herpes. She made me get tested for everything again (blood) and swabbed my bump. The results of the test said that I was negative for everything, even HSV 1. The doctor said that maybe the bump was a sebaceous cyst, which can form anywhere there is hair.
However, what concerns me is that I still have a bump. It has never been as large as it was a year ago, but it's still there. Whenever I mess with it, it becomes red and irritated and noticeably larger. If it is herpes, shouldn't it disappear? What should I do from here to figure out exactly what my problem is?