2) what are the approximate chances of getting herpes as a male with a female WITH open herpes sores if a condom was used in an encounter like mine? (i don't know if she had open sores) 1%? 50%? i really don't even have a good range here. i see HIV statistics all the time like this but haven't found any for herpes.
I would say more far less that that, though we don't have great statistics, no, because most herpes is not transmitted from people with an open sore at the time that they have sex.
3) what are the approximate chances of getting herpes as a male with a female WITHOUT open herpes sores if a condom was used in an encounter like mine?
Maybe one in 10,000?
4) if i were to have started getting herpes symptoms 2 days after the encounter, what would happen 9 days after (now)? i can't seem to find this anywhere. it seems like my condition has remained about the same except for the time in the middle where it got a little better. if i did have herpes blisters, when would they be bursting?
If you had acquired herpes from this encounter, I would expect your symptoms to move from redness to a raised blister to an ulcer to a scab. It doesn't sound like any of this is happening for you, right?
5) i have heard if you pour urine on herpes sores it will sting very badly. what if you pour urine on herpes blisters, rash or early signs? does that hurt too?
oh my, I would imagine that it would, yes, though I've not heard of anyone trying this.
6) i know herpes usually show up on or near the penis head in males, but what if the penis head was covered with a condom? if i contracted herpes would it be more likely to occur near the base where it was exposed? or would it be more likely it entered on an unprotected region and ended up showing up near the head?
If you had contracted herpes, you would likely first notice symptoms more at the base of the penis than the head, but the symptoms could then move to the head of the penis as those nerves became more involved.
I think the chances of you acquiring herpes in this situation is really low, and your symptoms are not consistent with a genital herpes infection, honestly.
Terri
i have a follow up:
i dont think any herpes pictures look like what i have except this rare one:
http://www.herpessymptoms1.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/herpes-rash.jpg
from this website:
http://www.herpessymptoms1.com/herpes/260_stages-of-genital-herpes-pictures.html
the underside of my penis head kinda looks like that but not nearly as bad
2) what are the approximate chances of getting herpes as a male with a female WITH open herpes sores if a condom was used in an encounter like mine? (i don't know if she had open sores) 1%? 50%? i really don't even have a good range here. i see HIV statistics all the time like this but haven't found any for herpes.
3) what are the approximate chances of getting herpes as a male with a female WITHOUT open herpes sores if a condom was used in an encounter like mine?
4) if i were to have started getting herpes symptoms 2 days after the encounter, what would happen 9 days after (now)? i can't seem to find this anywhere. it seems like my condition has remained about the same except for the time in the middle where it got a little better. if i did have herpes blisters, when would they be bursting?
5) i have heard if you pour urine on herpes sores it will sting very badly. what if you pour urine on herpes blisters, rash or early signs? does that hurt too?
6) i know herpes usually show up on or near the penis head in males, but what if the penis head was covered with a condom? if i contracted herpes would it be more likely to occur near the base where it was exposed? or would it be more likely it entered on an unprotected region and ended up showing up near the head?