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Massage Experience Deux - Expert Opinion For An Older Person Please?

All this was so much easier back in the Jurassic period when I was in college. Yikes.

Mid-40's and occasionally get a massage, but am always extremely careful. Absolutely 0 penetrative anything, fluid exchange of any sort. Nadda. Recently received a massage from a new person. As I lay on my back she sat on my upper thighs and stroked me. At a couple of points it seemed that she pressed the base/shaft of my penis toward her shaved area/vagina, but I could not tell if there was contact or not. It is conceivable that I could have briefly come into contact with the upper exterior of her vagina/labia. I was by the way slathered with enough massage oil to make BP blush as this was going on. Then when she got up, she "dripped" on my upper thigh, saying that she was aroused. I immediately cleaned this off with a warm towel, and do not have any visable cuts, etc. on the area where said "drippage" occurred. My questions are:

- Should I be concerned if there was somehow brief exterior contact between my shaft and the outside of her vagina?
- Am I at risk relative to her dripping" on my thigh?

Thank You!
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1174003 tn?1308160819
As was said the risk was low.  The skin to skin contact would have caused some concern but our thighs skin is thicker than our genital skin.  The virus does need heat and friction to lead to transmission.  
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No, not at all. Your experience represents a very low risk for herpes, don`t need to worry.
To be transmitted, herpes requires to be massaged into the skin. A quick contact won`t give u herpes (and u don`t even know if the partner actually had herpes).
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