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Need a second opinion.

So im freaked out put and my first response i feel like wasnt clear. So i admit to making the biggest mistake of my life 2 days ago on my birthday. Im 19 and my friends got a backpage girl to come to a party for me. Long story short i had an alcohol induced encounter with her. She gave me a blow job and then i did anal sex with her. I do remember wearing a condom and that it didnt break but im freaked out and convinced im going to end up with an std from this. Can someone please advise me on what to do and how worried i should be i cant sleep i cant eat and the internet opinions are all over the place. Please help.
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I'm confused. I had developed some discomfort while urinating and lower abdominal pain so I went to my Dr. They had me pee in a cup and then 3 days later the medical assistant called and said my urine had some bacteria in it so the Dr has me taking ciprofloxacin and doxycycline. I asked what they thought it was and they said they thought it 2as a bladder infection. No more discomfort when urinating but the lower abdominal pain is still there. Any opinions on what may be happening? Would this he caused by any std and if so would 2hat I'm taking cure it?
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That's good to know. Thank you for your input. A guy named dave on the other thread agreed with you that this was a low risk situation bit can I ask one last question? When you say obvious symptoms whay should I be looking out for and for how long for different stds? I read a lot of these things have no symptoms I'm the internet. I don't mean to bother you guys just trying to figure out what is true and not
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Dave is a great guy and very knowledgeable. Obvious symptoms are lesions pain while urinating and discharge from the penis. Stuff you will clearly notice. Again the odds ypu contracted any std are very very small and if I were in your shoes I wouldn't be overly concerned at all.
It is true that some std's can be asymptomatic. Meaning no symptoms. This is not the norm though. I really wouldn't over think it or over stress.
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You can actually believe in what she told you. The vast majority of people don't lie about these things in all honesty a sex worker who always uses protection is far safer than the random drunken hook up at the bar. You should relax. Your exposure doesn't warrant the stress your putting yourself through.
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Oh ok sorry. I didnt know if the same people looked at all the forums. Thank you for your response. Im so ashamed of myelf and scared. I gor a hold of the girl this morning and asked her if she was clean, she said yes and that she has been doing this 10 years always uses a condom has never had an std and gets tested every 3 months. I  know that should make me feel better but it doesnt. Hopefully i dodnt catch anything and i can move on from thos clean and prostitute free. Again thanks.for the response and sorry about the different threads
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And keep your questions to a single thread please. It's hard to manage what's going on if multiple threads are going
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15249123 tn?1478652475
Oral sex is much lower risk for std's than vaginal or anal sex. Your condom protected anal sex was really a pretty safe encounter.  All in all your risk factor is very very low. So low I don't even recommendvtesting in the absence of obvious symptoms.
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