Dear Dr. Warren,
I wrote a few months back that I had been tested positive for HSV-2, first by IgG, then confirmed by WB. I tested negative for HSV-1 by IgG. The woman I am dating was subsequently tested for HSV-2 since we were having unprotected sex and was confirmed negative by IgG. She did not test for HSV-1 as she did have cold sores as a child, so we assume she is HSV-1 positive. Since receiving my test results we have been using latex condoms to help prevent transmission. Last weekend we had sex and, again, used latex condoms. Today she had a cold sore develop on her upper right lip. We are concerned for a couple of reasons. Firstly, she has not had a cold sore in many years, and, secondly, the cold sores she has had have typically developed on her lower right lip and have developed gradually, starting with a tingling sensation. Thus, the development of her current cold sore concerns us as it neither developed gradually nor in the same place. She did perform oral sex on me this last weekend, but over the latex condom. It is likely that she touched me around my waist area during intercourse and then touched her lip in the spot where the cold sore has now developed.
Our question is obviously about the development of this cold sore. We would like to know your thoughts on the likelihood of just a random HSV-1 oral flare-up versus the possibility we might have been too latent in our protective practice which resulted in her possibly contracting oral HSV-2. Or the possibility that our intercourse could have somehow induced an HSV-1 oral outbreak after such a long dormant period?
I should say, as I said in my previous message to you, that we did have unprotected sex, both oral and vaginal, for a few months prior to me being diagnosed with genital HSV-2 and she did not have any cold sore outbreaks during that time. Although we both realize after having researched the virus that shedding can occur any time and that transference could also occur at any time.