Hi Doctor,
Thank you in advance for any help you may be able to provide. I am a 27 year old male who has not had sex without a condom in 7 years prior to my current girlfriend. Before her I had not been sexually active for 2+ years. We have been having sex without a condom now for a little over 2 months. Before we started having sex I was tested for Syphilis, Chlamidya, and ghonnerrea, all of which came back negative. I had never shown any signs of herpes so my doctor said that a herpes test was not necessary as I would have had an outbreak in at least 2 years, so I didn't get one. She has been tested for everything and the results were all negative. Ever since we've started having sex I've been "over-inspecting," if you will, my genital area due to nervousness that I may have "something." Recently before bed I noticed a small red spot on the left side of the shaft of my penis, kind of on the underside. In the morning I woke up to find a small whitehead like pimple had formed and the redness wasn't as visible. It was raised so I applied a little pressure and it popped, with a little white puss coming out. I also noticed one small pimple like bump on the inner thigh and popped it in the same manner with the same result. I do work out with a lot of cardio, so I do sweat quite a bit in that area.
My questions to you are:
1- is it common to get a pimple/whitehead on the underside of the penis?
2- given the history I laid out, should I be concerned about genital herpes?
3- after it popped, it's a little red like any other pimple would be, am I freaking out over nothing?
Again, thank you for any help you may be able to provide!
-T