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Please help Grace

My exposure with a herpes positive women was limited to kissing and fingering her, i have eczema on my hands. I had shorts and boxers on underneath.  We kissed with her laying down and me on top. I fingered her, she was wearing a very small skirt. I don't think i took my penis out, and she doesn't remember that happening either, she doesn't remember me rubbing it on her thigh or vagina or it even being out, and neither do I.

But this happened on May 2nd a few days after that around may5th-6th, I started to get frequent urination(9-11) times a day, and this feeling of urine not being completely out of urethra like a few drops are always stuck. no pain, burning or discharge. There were no visible lesions on my penis, my symptoms of this urination continued. They would get better one day and then next day i would find myself going to the bathroom 8-9 times. My doctor first prescribed cipro and by June 10th when the symptoms still were there he prescribed doxycycline. Even now some days i can go without 5 hours of going to the bathroom but other days i have to go after 30 minutes. She is hsv2 and hsv1 positive but has never had an outbreak. At first around that time i thought it was a uit/prostatitis, because i didn't know about her hsv2 positivity until May 30th, neither did she. Now all that is on my mind is HERPETIC URETHRITIS. Could this have been that? i have not had any sores or lesions, i check everyday.
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i did get my prostate checked but it was done 3 months after.....the doctor had given me doxycycline, so anything that would of inflammed it, the treatment would of have been the same he said. I just don't know what caused it, just the timing of how close it was to my exposure with this women scares me that maybe i did contract something, maybe i did touch her vagina with my penis or maybe i touched my penis after fingering her.
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Hi, your penis did not have any contact with her genital area and especially the inside of your penis so any irritations or symptoms of frequent urination would not be related to the affair. You cant get genital herpes from kissing her and fingering her is not an iss either.
I would suggest seeing a doc and having your prostate checked for some other cause.
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