Thanks Grace, it is a high powered vibrator and too intense for direct contact but I can't feel anything with weaker ones. It is only using surface no insertion. The bumps used to have blood but last one was just a little see-through liquid. I will quit the carb habit. Thanks sooo much!
well at least lube up your skin before you use it even if you are using it over clothing. our genital skin is very delicate.
have you ever tried the glass dildos? they are nice because you can really get them clean and they don't wear out like the plastic does on vibes. I've really enjoyed my glass dildo and manual stimulation myself ;)
for most of us, it's starting to get into the right time of the year when fresh local produce is slowly coming in season . If you have a local farmers market, try to stop by , look at all the fresh produce and bring home lots! so many good foods you can make to fill you up so less room in your belly for cookies!
Never tried glass dildos but interesting tip. I can't feel anything with dildos and hands in general. The high powered is so powerful it almost hurts but its the only way I can feel now. I was abused a lot growing up so maybe this is part of it, I have sough years of therapy too. I will try lube next time. And yes, I love the farmer's market and am strengthening my will, i got to get away from my friend who loves to tempt and sabotage and keep me chubby like him ;p
Thanks for best answers here!
you can't break the glass dildos - well at least not using them to pleasure yourself....lol you can also experiment with warming them and cooling them to see which feels best too.
have you tried the finger tip massagers?
Haven't tried the finger tip massagers but will look into it thank you ;p
Regular massagers and mini massagers are low powered and are usually too gentle for me to do anything since the powerful high powered ones came into the picture and de-sensitized me. I'll work on re-training the body. Kind of like how junkfood addiction often makes healthy foods taste bland until you detox all the excitotoxins and then eat a local farm produce (:
it is hard to find sex toys that you really like in general I think! When you do find one, you tend to stick with it :)
herpes lesions typically do not have blood in them.
quit the bad carbs habit!!!
grace