7 days ago, I made a foolish decision and received oral without a condom. I am very stressed and have been for the past week and reading the internet makes me nauseous, and I can't sleep. It read that 5-7 days 80% show symptoms. At 8-14 days 90% show symptoms, and 15-21 days 100% (those with immuno-disorders) show symtpoms. I am inspecting myself at least 12 times a day and can't tell if that is making my shaft red or if it is herpes. It does not hurt constantly. Though I did accidentally put some burn cream on my shaft and that made it very dry and part of the shaft red or could that be the herpes? I am not seeing any huge clusters. Should I be in the clear for the most part since I have past the marker where 80% of people would have shown symptoms? I did have a doctors appointment schedule a few days ago and the family practitioner said it comes down to if I have symptoms which makes it difficult for me to judge because I have nothing to base it on.