I had painful ulcerations in my vaginal area, saw my gyn, was told I had herpes, and was prescribed cream and oral medication. It went away and I have never had another outbreak. This was 20+ years ago. Since then I have been married and monogamous. I am now widowed and had to tell the person I am dating. Our question is, If it has never recurred, is that what it was? How can I best determine if I have HSV?