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Hello,

Visited a massage parlor 3 days ago, and received oral sex then washed up straight afterwards.

Small bump, squeezed it fluid came out. Don’t know if it was puss or the ‘clear fluid’ that comes out of herpes blisters. I’ve read on the net that a herpes outbreak can be as mild as a small red bump.

It is a fact that massage parlor workers get mandatory STD screenings every 3 or 6 months, but it is also a fact that they don’t test them for herpes.

Anyway, I am waiting for the bump to develop so I can see whether there will be the pimple whitehead hallmark or not.

Any input?
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55646 tn?1263660809
For maximum accuracy, four months.

Terri
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Yeah i don't think it is hepres either. I didn't know i would have to wait four months before getting tested, I thought it was much less, no?
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55646 tn?1263660809
Good you went to see someone.  They are in a far better position than I am to help you sort this out.  If you are still worried, you can retest in four months from the encounter, but I'll bet your doctor knows what is going on here and he doesn't think it's herpes, right?

Terri
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Hello Terri,

The doctor said it is, and i am translating "fatty bump which got inflamed due to rough friction from the hand stimulation" Further, he advised it cannot be herpes since it appeared so soon after the encounter, and that it does not look like herpes.

Moreover, he said I need to put some antiinflamatory ointment on it for five days, and if it does not go away to check back with him.

Your final opinion is appreciated, thanks
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55646 tn?1263660809
I doubt that it is herpes, but when people have a "bump", I think it is always good to have it evaluated in person, yes.

Terri
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So could it be herpes, this mild? Noting I have had this type of bump numerous times in the past especially after unprotected sex. Could just be irritation from the hand sex using saliva + oral sex. It hasn't developed a whitehead yet. Should I consult a physician? Thanks
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Yes negative
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55646 tn?1263660809
Have you ever been tested for herpes in the past?

Terri
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But I do have a history with pimples... In fact I have one right now in between my testicles and buttocks opening
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never got a cold sore
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Thanks,
The bump started developing on the second night after the encounter.
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55646 tn?1263660809
Oh, and also I am not aware of any requirement for massage people to get tested for STDs at all.

Terri
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55646 tn?1263660809
How long after the contact did you develop the bump?
Have you ever in your life had a cold sore on your lip?  The risk here, which is really small, in terms of herpes, would be getting HSV 1, the type that causes recurrent cold sores, on your penis.  If you've had a cold sore in your life, it is highly unlikely that you would get HSV 1 genitally after that.

Terri
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Bump on the shaft
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