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SW massage place, risks for omega genital herpies?

I was sadly depressed and went to a massage place. Was expecting the usual handy but the girl french kissed me ( A lot, sucked the tongue) and we did 69 oral sex without any barriers to completion. I declined P to V condom sex.

My own fault but wasn't in the best state of mind. This was 3 days ago.
What are my chances of genital herpies and mouth herpies popping up in the next week or so because of this exposure.Omega warts? Aids? HPV? Some **** I never even heard of popping up?

Eh, life is sad. Thanks for your help.
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I'm not sure what "omega herpes" is or "omega warts" are?


In any case, giving oral sex to someone with a vagina oral is one of the lowest risk activities.

The risks are chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis. Syphilis isn't that common, and your partner would have had to have a sore that your mouth came into contact with to transmit it. You would get a sore in your mouth anywhere from 10-90 days, with 21 days being the average. You can test for this at 6 weeks.

Oral gonorrhea doesn't usually have symptoms, but if you got them, it would be a sore, red throat, maybe a fever, maybe swollen glands. If you get symptoms, they usually appear within 7-21 days. You can get a throat swab for this at about 5 days.

Oral chlamydia is thought to be rare, and usually doesn't present with symptoms. The time frame for testing is the same as gonorrhea.

Giving oral to someone with a vagina is not that risky. Because nothing is physically in your throat like a penis would be, chances of getting gonorrhea or chlamydia are far less likely.

HPV is a possibility, but you'd have no symptoms because most oral HPV are the strains that don't give you warts.


So receiving unprotected oral sex puts you at risk for syphilis, genital herpes type 1, chlamydia, gonorrhea and NGU. You are not at risk for HIV from receiving (or giving) oral sex.

I’ll explain all the risks for everything, but most experts don't think a single act of oral sex warrants testing. If you have a regular partner you're concerned about infecting, you might want to test, but you probably don't need to test unless you get symptoms.


Syphilis isn't that common, and your partner would have had to have a sore in their mouth to transmit it. You wouldn't see symptoms of this for 10-90 days, but the average is 21 days, and you'd get a sore called a chancre. This doesn't cause burning, pain, discharge, etc. You can test for this at 6 weeks. If you get symptoms, but test negative at 6 weeks, test again at 90 days, and get to the doctor as soon as you see symptoms.

Herpes Simplex Type 1:

If you don't already have herpes type 1 (think oral sores, like cold sores but not canker sores), then you could get genital herpes type 1 from receiving oral sex. This can happen even if the person performing oral doesn't have a sore, but it's more likely if they do. The time from infection to symptoms is usually 2-12 days, but the average is 4 days. You can test for this now, and then again at 4 months to make sure you don't have it. If you test positive now, it's a pre-existing infection that you had before this encounter. About half the adult population has this, and 90% don’t know it. Ask for a type specific hsv1 IgG blood test. You don't need a type 2 test, and that test has some false positives on it, so avoid it if you can.  


You'd see symptoms of gonorrhea at about 2-5 days, and this would usually be a discharge, burning, etc. Some people don't get symptoms. You can test for this as early as 3 days, but 5 days is better. You can have a urine test or a swab test.


Oral chlamydia isn't common at all, so getting chlamydia from receiving oral isn't likely, but has happened, so I mention it. The symptoms and time frame are similar to gonorrhea. A chlamydia test is usually run at the same time as gonorrhea, but make sure to ask for it.


NGU (nongonococcal urethritis urethritis, sometimes called NSU, for non-specific) is an infection in the urethra that is caused by anything other than gonorrhea . This can be caused by normal mouth bacteria entering the urethra, and other germs, like strep, adenovirus (usually causes upper respiratory infections like bronchitis), and the like. The symptoms and testing times are the same as gonorrhea and chlamydia.  


As in giving oral, if you did get HPV from receiving oral, you wouldn't get symptoms. The strains of HPV associated with the mouth are the strains that don't give warts.

Remember that oral is far less risky than P in V.

If you want to test, that's fine. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Don't run out and test for herpes, though - there are false positives on the hsv2 tests - which you aren't at risk for, but are run with hsv1 tests, and that will cause all kinds of things you don't need.

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Just to ease your mind about HIV - The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.

AIDS isn't something you can catch, but HIV, which can leads to AIDS, is transmissible - but ONLY by engaging in one of the activities listed above, with a person who is HIV-positive.
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Wow guys, these are the best answers I ever read. Thank you so much for this information, really detailed and hope these help other people as well. Bless you both for this info.
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You're welcome. Happy to help.
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