odds are this isn't herpes going on. your description doesn't sound like it. also herpes will never go away in a few hours.
Neither of us have been tested, but neither of us have ever had a cold sore. I know I haven't ever had one. And of the year and a half I've known her, I've never seen her with a cold sore, and she says she has never had one, so that's obviously a good thing, that I should have included! Thanks for your help. Whatever it was, went away within a few hours of my post, so I'm not so nervous anymore. Thank you!
Never shave over existing symptoms, as it may only exacerbate things.
Be seen for a proper exam if you are concerned.
Have either of you been tested to know your herpes status? Have either of you ever had cold sores? No reason for being terrified - become educated, not fearful. Oral herpes can be spread via oral sex, but usually if involves a classic outbreak of obvious painful lesions at the area of contact (i.e. penis/shaft for a man).
Oops, i made a mistake.... I meant i noticed a slightly red spot, not bump.