Since discovering I have GHSV1, I have been doing a lot of research on the internet (not sure if that is the right thing lol).
Here is what I seem to have found out.
1. Oral HSV1 is so common, somewhere from 50% up to 90% of the population in positive from what I read. I read that if you have oral, you are very unlikely to get it genitally. But how come GHSV1 is becoming so very apparent, and from what I believe, it is more common than GHSV2?
There seems to be so much confusion about transmission of this disease. There is such a grey area from what I read.
For example, I have spoken to a nurse who hasn't got GHSV2, but her boyfriend of 4 years has. They don't use protection. She has never gotten it, and neither did his ex wife of 25 years. Huh? And i have read that this is the case for many couples...
Yet I found out a good friend of mine has GHSV2. She has only had a few boyfriends and from what she can recall, she can never remember any of them has any sore when they were intimate.
How can this be?
2. Condoms have proven to prevent the transfer of this disease. When I have had the only 2 OB (from what I recall only 2 in the last 6 years - I am not sure how long I have had it), I don't understand how condoms can protect a man from getting it from me when OB hasn't been internal, but external. One was severe, the other wasn't and I never saw it coming. Had I had a partner, I could've given to him, as I couldn't see any signs.
3. Please do you have any links about the studies that have been done about the transfer of GHSV1. There seems to be so much for GHSV2 but not much for the other.
4. If I was to have a partner in the future, I don't know what to say to him re: transmission. All I can see is that there is a good chance that he will get it, and there is also a good chance that you won't. I can't find any studies or evidence of anything about it.
5. And if the transfer of genital to genital is so very low, like I have seen you reply in a few threads, why is it that I have read on forums that some people only got it via intercourse, as they never had oral sex? I am not questioning your answers, you are a doctor, but how can people be getting it when no oral sex occured?
Is there any proof/evidence that if you are positive to oral, that you are very unlikely to genitally?
6. Both OB, I was on Antibiotics. Does antibiotics make it worse? Funny too that apparently the side effects of antibiotics, is 'thrush'. I wonder if a lot of people are actually getting symptoms of GHSV1...
Sorry for so many questions, but I am trying to come to terms with this so I can move ahead.
I don't want to ignore my questions, and want to be aware of what I have so I can make the right decisions in the future.
Many thanks for your time.