Hello! I recently entered into a relationship with a young lady who has Herpes. With tears in her eyes she told me about it yesterday, for which I give her much credit. And still I feel so strongly for her that, unlike most guys in college, I'd still like to pursue this relationship and still want to have sex.
I'm not sure if she has HSV-1 or HSV-2, but I know it is genital. I know she is taking medication (not sure if it's Valtrex or an alternative though). My question is such: What are "safe" methods we can engage in to still have sex, without myself or her having to worry as much about transmission? She suggested I keep my boxers on and wear a condom, which seems somewhat safe, but I am hoping for a safer alternative. I have done my due diligence i.e Terri Warren's "The Updated Herpes Handbook" but would like more specific solutions to going about this.
Thanks so much in advance for your time :)