Thank you very much "Squints" and "Feeling" for your very helpful input. Take it easy...
Shedding with hsv2 occurs anywhere from 15% to 30% of days. Swuints is correct that hsv2 is rarely an oral infection. When it is is sheds very little and if your infection is oral, it's highly unlikely you would ever spread it through oral sex. No chance through kissing really.
You can shed the virus anywhere in the boxer shorts region, so using protection is the safer thing to do but that decision is completely up to you two.
It's passed by what they call shedding, any area in the "gym shorts area" can be affected. Shedding happens from time to time usually around an outbreak, as long as you know where your hsv2 breaks out. oral should be fine, it's not super common​ to be on the mouth. And when the virus is shedding any sex if he's on top or you're on top can spread the virus to him. I would suggest always using a condom untill you become more familiar with how the virus effects you.
No. That is pretty conclusive. You can always take another test to be certain
What test came up positive? Igm or igg and what was tbe numerical value?
I neglected to mention in my question that we are males.