Sorry you have been going through all of this.
The one that was 5.0 is positive - according to your last post, that was HSV-2. If he tested negative for the same type, then you probably had it prior to being with him and didn't know it or have any outbreaks. Given that neither of you knew about it, how scary that he was out there having affairs and potentially spreading it around - thankfully for those women, he didn't get it, though i bet you're pissed that you have it and he doesn't - i don't blame you. Did you see his actual results or did he just tell you that?
A person can't just be a "carrier" but not have it.
As for future relationships: I hope you are taking the medication. This will be the best way to protect your partners. Make sure to have protected sex with a condom, avoid sex during an outbreak if you have one, and inform your partners if you intend to develop a more meaningful relationship. The "keepers" will understand and be able to openly discuss it with you in a supportive way - that's how u sort out the men from the boys at the outset. Also be supportive of them if they do not know the facts and help them to understand how low their risk is (if you are on medication and using protection and not having an outbreak) ... they may turn into keepers!
Right now all of this is very upsetting, but as you learn more, you will find you can have a healthy normal relationship after discovering you have HSV-2.
Good luck and please confirm if your last post was the correct one.
I give up my HSV 1 was neg 0.90 and HSV 2 was pos 5.0 for me
he only teste HSV 2 it was neg 0.90
AND again something is not uploding correctly, maybe user error. Yet again I've posted this wrong...errrr
my test HSV 1 = 5.00
His test HSV 2 = <0.90
This was last year 03/2008
Neither one of us have ever had issues, problems or out breaks. Could the test be wrong? Can a person be a carrier only?
You are negative for type 2. Positive for type 1.
Welcome to the majority.
Yet again I've posted this wrong...errrr
my test HSV 1 = 5.00
His test HSV 2 = <0.90
This was last year 03/2008
Neither one of us have ever had issues, problems or out breaks. Could the test be wrong? Can a person be a carrier only?