Well at this point you can get a blood test and the results will be a great indicator.
*update week 7 1/2 now im having nerve pricking pain ,muscle, joint ache knee pain upper backpain on the left sholder blade
If it was raw you would have pain. Just a little redness doesn't suggest hsv. Your risk is so small. Try not to worry
I just check and my frenulum my frenulum is red raw but no itching burning no pain
These things are normal and I wouldn't be concerned.
I had some nerve pain on my left leg. Muscle spasm could it be from the antiboitics
No. Thats to early. 8 weeks is a good indicator and 12 weeks is conclusive. I still think your symptoms are not std related
But do you think 3 1/2 weeks is good to test igg
None of this suggests hsv at all. It simply does not present this way. Sounds more stress related or a small injuy than anything. You were at no risk to the urithra when your penis was condom protected. Your possible over washing might have helped to aggravate the situation.