None of this suggests hsv at all. It simply does not present this way. Sounds more stress related or a small injuy than anything. You were at no risk to the urithra when your penis was condom protected. Your possible over washing might have helped to aggravate the situation.
But do you think 3 1/2 weeks is good to test igg
No. Thats to early. 8 weeks is a good indicator and 12 weeks is conclusive. I still think your symptoms are not std related
I had some nerve pain on my left leg. Muscle spasm could it be from the antiboitics
These things are normal and I wouldn't be concerned.
I just check and my frenulum my frenulum is red raw but no itching burning no pain
If it was raw you would have pain. Just a little redness doesn't suggest hsv. Your risk is so small. Try not to worry
*update week 7 1/2 now im having nerve pricking pain ,muscle, joint ache knee pain upper backpain on the left sholder blade
Well at this point you can get a blood test and the results will be a great indicator.