No herpes is more or less just a reoccurring skin condition. Yes a lot of people have it. Its more of a irritation than anything else. Herpes does make it easier to contract other stds including hiv. I get a cold sore or 2 every few years on my lip, that is herpes 1. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years and she has never had a out break, lip or anywhere else. Some people carry it and never know. God bless
Well yes and no. If someone does not have it they can get it.