married ten years

[samtone]

Married almost ten years and wife just had our first child almost 3 years ago. I think i have HSV-1 genital. How can I prove I didn't cheat?????

[gracefromHHP]

if you didn't cheat then if you contracted hsv1 genitally then you got it from your wife.

grace

[samtone]

If it does turn out to be HSV how can I prove I didn't cheat?

[samtone]

I hope you are correct because I would have a hard time explaining an STD to my loving wife and she is a loving wife.

[gracefromHHP]

sounds more like a fungal infection or prostatitis than herpes.  

grace

[samtone]

Also I haven't had any kind of erection since the symptoms began. Not even the morning wood when you need to pee. Go figure??

[samtone]

Oh and its been a week since symptoms started.

[samtone]

I haven't had any open sores or blisters nor do I have itching.I have had frequent urination constant burning at the tip. One site suggested prostatitis but the head of my penis seems to have a different look which is why I am leaning towards HSV

[gracefromHHP]

honestly going to be seen in a few days is way too late. the key to getting diagnosed as having hsv1 genitally is from a lesion culture of active symptoms and that needs to be done sooner rather than later.  if you have symptoms you think might be herpes, you need to be seen today.  

grace

[samtone]

No I haven't been diagnosed yet but very concerned it could be just from reading everything. I go to the urologist in a few days but I am scared as hell. My wife has never had a cold sore that I am aware of but I have. I was her first sexual partner but I have been with at least 3 unprotected oral and intercourse before our marriage.

Thanks for your reply!

[gracefromHHP]

how were you diagnosed?

has your wife had any herpes blood testing done? does she have a history of cold sores at all?

grace