two nights ago I kissed (open-mouthed, or French-style) a young female. She had no visible sores on her mouth. However, I've recently found out that she has herpes; she didn't say anything to me but I think she's a good, responsable person. We kissed for about three minutes or so. When I was in my early 20's, I had some big cold sores on my lips for a few weeks, but I haven't had any in years. I have a year-old son and I kiss him all the time (cheeks, neck, never the lips). What are the chances that I picked up oral herpes from this female?