please please help

[helplord]

Dear madam ,

i am very scared to death , i cannot concentrate on my work and my company has given me ultimatum .

please please i need your help ,

i am an unmarried person , 3 days back i had two encounters which put me two risk of herpes , please guide me through this


first episode :

1. I open mouthed kissed several times ( two days ) including lip sucking and tongue sucking with a women .

    she was not having any cold sores on her outer lips , to be frank i do not checked her inner lips .she licked and kissed all over my face and ears .


second episode :

i open mouthed kissed  briefly a chinese prostitute ( no tongue sucking involved )

she sucked my nipples too ( concerned about nipple herpes )


she licked and kissed all over my face and ears ,

THE MOST FREIGHTENING PART , SHE WAS PUTTING HER FINGER IN HER MOUTH AND THEN SHE TOUCHED MY UNCOVERED PENIS  ALSO (SALIVA ON IT) , I ALSO ONCE PUT MY FINGER IN HER MOUTH AND ACCIDENTALLY HANDLED MY PENIS URETHRA. WHAT ARE MY CHANCE OF GENITAL HERPES


Please help me know my exact risks without any relief , tellme frankly what are my chances.

I CAN DO MY TESTING AFTER TEN WEEKS . DO MY TEN WEEKS TESTING BE CONCLUSIVE AFTER THESE EPISODES.

ALSO I AM NEGATIVE BOTH FOR HSV-1 AND 2

[Terri Warren, RN, Adult Nurse Practitioner]

You could develop blisters on your lips, but again, that should happen pretty soon if it is going to happen.  I think the chances of getting genital herpes from the saliva is as close to zero as you are going to get.  

If you are negative at 10 weeks for both viruses, I think it is very unlikely that you are infected, but we like the final test at 16 weeks better.

Terri

[helplord]

thanks for ur assurance , u r like lord to me .

jsut want to know if i will develop blisters on my lips , how much chances  i can develop it on my genitals also bcoz of saliva exposure .

also want to know if i will test after 10 weeks for peace of mind u think i should accept my results if negative

[Terri Warren, RN, Adult Nurse Practitioner]

Your risk of getting oral herpes is low, and your risk of getting genital herpes is almost zero.  I know you are frightened, but the circumstances of your encounter present you with very little opportunity for infection.  If you are going to get a first episode infection, it would likely happen within the next week.  If not, I believe that you are in the clear.  

Have you ever been tested for HSV 1 and 2?  When you say that you are negative, is that because you have been tested and know this?  

I really want you to try to calm down and focus on your work.  Your risks are very low and if you truly are negative by testing, then if you were going to have an outbreak of new infection, I suspect it would be within the next week.

Terri

[helplord]

Also second one has no cold sores obvious on herlips , I checked her linner lips but I could not see anything of course I am no doctor .

I cleaned my mouth with antiseptic afte r second episode