I have been having stomach pains the past few weeks or so and me and my girlfriend are very sexually active so much so that she is raw currently, but past night we were getting out of the shower and I noticed some red spots in my genital area. I noticed a small area of red spots on the right side of my penis at the bottom of the shaft that do not itch and only hurt very mildly if I touch them I was hoping it would be me being rubbed raw but there are also more red spots stead out through the upper pubic area. Is this genital herpes?