I'm trying to understand what could possibly be going on down there... Over this past month I have been having sex with the guy I'm dating he is very well endowed and sometimes after sex it hurts. This new years we had a party and yes ended up having a night of heavy drinking and later sex. The next morning when I woke up it hurt pretty bad down there sorta like being overstretched. I figure because we were drunk it had been rough sex. So with that being said it did hurt to urinate but I think it was from tearing. Yesterday after a shower I decided to take a look to see if it was red because my posterior fourchette was still little sore. I saw a little tiny bump on my labia majora in which i figured was a ingrown hair or pimple because I shave down there. It wasn't painful or tender i popped it cleaned it and was done with that. I didn't take any nausea into consideration being that i figured i was a bit hung over & sometimes my joints hurt after drinking. I was also wearing a tight laced corset couple days ago which in turn i had a little back pain. But now I'm worried my partner says he doesn't have anything though I know for some people they show no symptoms. My symptoms follow as is, slight discomfort when urinating, one bump (that is now gone) I have no unusual discharge or fever/headache and no swollen lymph nodes. Do you think it's herpes? or something else?
Do you use lube for sex? if not, you should be, Even lubricated condoms need extra lube and it'll help you be more comfortable during sex.
grace