If it really doesn't hurt at all then it's not likely to be herpes. Maybe pick up a "fun" lube you can use with your toy as well as use with your wife ? Nothing like a blind taste test ....he he he
grace
Thank you very much for the feed back. You helped alot, I am freaking out and now I feel better. I will try the powder. It doesnt hurt at all thank god for that.
Again thank you for your time
You should always use a decent lube with a toy. Remember when you were a kid and you rubbed a pencil eraser on your arm to get "hickies"? Same basic thing if you don't use lube with a toy.
Could this be herpes? It could be but obviously it didn't come from the sex toy. It would have to be a previous infection making itself known from the "trauma" of the sex toy.
So what do you do now? Well if you just want pain relief, cool compresses are helpful ( obviously not when you are driving ). You can also pick up some dermoplast spray ( the blue can for the genital area, not the red can ). It's a topical anesthetic that is helpful for pain relief ( also useful on hemorrhoids if you have them ). Also powdering your genital area before getting dressed will help with cutting down friction from your clothing rubbing over the open wounds during the day too while these are healing.
Someday you will be able to laugh about this I promise :)
grace
Dont think herpes will live on in-animate object for too long..you sure it wasnt a burn? lol