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worried about stupid mistake
hello everyone
im really worried about an encounter that happened yesterday... my first ever (im a virgin)... Just turned 18 year old last week.. I am a geek and never had a gf nor did i ever kiss anyone ever,, I have had a difficult life.. in my stress I decided to see a STREET HOOKER to get a fellatio.. She was quite old and told me she did the streets since 15 years... She wanted to give me unprotected fellatio as she does usually but I insisted on condom
here is what I did:
1) I washed my penis
2) I touched her breasts, buttocks and back masturbated my bare penis a bit
3) I touched her vagina (rubbed it with my bare fingers for 3-5 seconds)
4) I wore my boxer shorts (penis inside but erect) and sat on her vaginal area... she was naked... I had worn boxers only... I then saw a really red bump on her vaginal area and on her pubic area (on triangular hair patch)...it was around 5mm big i think.. My bare thighs touched her vagina and the bumps...
she also had red bumps on her buttocks
5) she masturbated her vagina well and fingered herself well... then she took a condom and inserted her finger on the inside of the condom and unrolled it on her fingers (she had her vaginal fluids on fingers and may have herpes whit-low!!)..then she made me wear that same condom.. my fear is that her vagina fluids (infected with herpes and other STDs) stayed on my bear penis head during the whole 20 minutes that followed.. she masturbated and gave me protected oral.. but her vaginal fluids were already inside the condom;(..
6) I had a healing wound from an infected hair follicle at the base of my penis... it had dried out and crusted..but i had scratched the crust some 45 minutes earlier..it may have opened up../. her saliva and her vaginal fluids had touched it directly..her fingers with herpes whitlow perhaps may have touched the opened wound directly there...
7) I wore a latex glove and fingered her..then I masturbated myself (with condom still on)... Her infected fluids touched my penis shaft skin and the wound that was open near my penis shaft base
8) I had also inserted my penis in between her breasts and moved to and fro..but the condom was slipping.. I used same fingers that had her fluids to adjust condom
9) I kissed her breasts and sucked them...not nipples
10) she on sucked the condom covered part..she did not kiss me at all anywhere else... her saliva fell on my
scrotum and penis shaft though
11) I had a flu when I went to see the CSW and some hours later I got high fever;(..does this increase my risk? Also the Hooker was coughing a lot.. she seemed ill
What is my herpes risk??? Both HSV 1 and HSV 2...and any other STD?? Will I die with an STD now from what I did??? ;(
help please... I am really scared about the red bumps she had and the vaginal fluids that she inserted inside the condom before making me wear it...;(.. ALso she may have Herpes Whitlow on her fingers and left the virus inside the condom... I am worried... help me
SOS HELP;(
I want to live... I have exams in one month... I cannot do anything now... My whole life over??? The woman was really High risk.. I am ashamed;(
im really worried about an encounter that happened yesterday... my first ever (im a virgin)... Just turned 18 year old last week.. I am a geek and never had a gf nor did i ever kiss anyone ever,, I have had a difficult life.. in my stress I decided to see a STREET HOOKER to get a fellatio.. She was quite old and told me she did the streets since 15 years... She wanted to give me unprotected fellatio as she does usually but I insisted on condom
here is what I did:
1) I washed my penis
2) I touched her breasts, buttocks and back masturbated my bare penis a bit
3) I touched her vagina (rubbed it with my bare fingers for 3-5 seconds)
4) I wore my boxer shorts (penis inside but erect) and sat on her vaginal area... she was naked... I had worn boxers only... I then saw a really red bump on her vaginal area and on her pubic area (on triangular hair patch)...it was around 5mm big i think.. My bare thighs touched her vagina and the bumps...
she also had red bumps on her buttocks
5) she masturbated her vagina well and fingered herself well... then she took a condom and inserted her finger on the inside of the condom and unrolled it on her fingers (she had her vaginal fluids on fingers and may have herpes whit-low!!)..then she made me wear that same condom.. my fear is that her vagina fluids (infected with herpes and other STDs) stayed on my bear penis head during the whole 20 minutes that followed.. she masturbated and gave me protected oral.. but her vaginal fluids were already inside the condom;(..
6) I had a healing wound from an infected hair follicle at the base of my penis... it had dried out and crusted..but i had scratched the crust some 45 minutes earlier..it may have opened up../. her saliva and her vaginal fluids had touched it directly..her fingers with herpes whitlow perhaps may have touched the opened wound directly there...
7) I wore a latex glove and fingered her..then I masturbated myself (with condom still on)... Her infected fluids touched my penis shaft skin and the wound that was open near my penis shaft base
8) I had also inserted my penis in between her breasts and moved to and fro..but the condom was slipping.. I used same fingers that had her fluids to adjust condom
9) I kissed her breasts and sucked them...not nipples
10) she on sucked the condom covered part..she did not kiss me at all anywhere else... her saliva fell on my
scrotum and penis shaft though
11) I had a flu when I went to see the CSW and some hours later I got high fever;(..does this increase my risk? Also the Hooker was coughing a lot.. she seemed ill
What is my herpes risk??? Both HSV 1 and HSV 2...and any other STD?? Will I die with an STD now from what I did??? ;(
help please... I am really scared about the red bumps she had and the vaginal fluids that she inserted inside the condom before making me wear it...;(.. ALso she may have Herpes Whitlow on her fingers and left the virus inside the condom... I am worried... help me
SOS HELP;(
I want to live... I have exams in one month... I cannot do anything now... My whole life over??? The woman was really High risk.. I am ashamed;(
Ok then thanks.. We are going to do that for hsv1.. We never had cold sores and it should be a problem but we will take all necessary precautions;) We will discuss it with our doc and see. Thanks lots..bye and god bless you!
You are an angel.. A life saviour!
You are an angel.. A life saviour!
your anxiety is your issue here. you weren't at risk for anything.
you don't have to go through any testing from this encounter before you marry next year.
you both should be tested for hsv1 prior to starting to be intimate together to see if you should be concerned about hsv1 transmission to the genital area through oral sex. hsv1 orally is present in 1 out of every 3 adults whether you've had sex or not.
you don't have to go through any testing from this encounter before you marry next year.
you both should be tested for hsv1 prior to starting to be intimate together to see if you should be concerned about hsv1 transmission to the genital area through oral sex. hsv1 orally is present in 1 out of every 3 adults whether you've had sex or not.
I wore my boxer btw. So only my thighs with folliculitis touched her genital area.. No humping/ frottage at all!!! I hope this is zero risk.. It's my only concern about herpes.
This is my last question.. Please help.. I promise to move on if zero risk.. Can I have sex without any worry with my girlfriend (we planning next year for our birthday!)?... I just don't want to infect her.. She is a virgin.. My only fear is herpes
This is my last question.. Please help.. I promise to move on if zero risk.. Can I have sex without any worry with my girlfriend (we planning next year for our birthday!)?... I just don't want to infect her.. She is a virgin.. My only fear is herpes
Infact I checked and saw no wounds on my thighs, just some ingrown and inflamed hair follicles! What about herpes from these hair follicles touching her red bumps on vagina when I sat on her for like 10-20seconds? Does this make it no risk for herpes at all?
you don't need any testing for any std's at all. you weren't at any real risk at all for any std.
relax!!!
grace
relax!!!
grace
My immune system was low.. I was ill at the time of the encounter.. I still have high fever.. I guess this increases my risk.. Please help.. Please.. Was I at any risk from all described above? Please see my comments also.. Please help;(
and what STDS should i test for? and when?? sorry.,.. i feel complicated and worried to death
last thing.. I also had a pimple on my upper shaft which I had popped yesterday... a hair came out.. and it was crusting... consider this also.. her vaginal fluids which she put inside the condom touched against it and the viruses may have entered my body via the tiny wound during masturbation... (massaged into the skin)... or when i fingered her and adjusted condom with same fingers..I touched the wound on upper shaft.. her fluids could have entered my body then..
also my inner thighs were bruised from friction while running.. the wounds may have touched her vagina with red bumps when i sat on her.. i was wearing my boxer whole time
i mean the inflammed hair follicles and the wounds on thighs from them touched her vagina and genitals and her infected skin with herpes (red bumps on pubic areas)... Please take all these in consideration.. Am i getting worried for nothing??
I also lie on top of her,, she was naked and i had my boxer and my shirt on me.. my penis was inside.. in no case my bare penis touched her body.. However I had inflammed hair follicles (some opened as wounds) on my thighs,,,these touched her bare body and her vagina and the red bumps she had on pubic area (perhaps herpes)... Did I get herpes from these???
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
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