A few months ago I was with a guy who had HPV.. And after I found out I decided it was safe to get Gardasil, but we never did anything until after I got the first vaccination. . .And never once did I touch him or anything, but he DID give me oral. . . And now I have a new boyfriend, and I'm worried I might have HPV. . .I haven't seen any signs on my genitalia, but I have these little bumps under my tongue around my frenulum and wharton's bumps. . .And I'm freaking out a little bit, because I don't know if this is normal to have or not!! But I'm only 17 and my mom didn't even know I was dating this guy at the time, so if I do go to a doctor I'll be really scared that she'll find out, cause I know she'll be really disappointed, her and my father :( Help!!