Hey, please help me. I am male and recently me and my girlfriend have engaged in oral sex also we've done a bit of fingering and she's tossed me off. All was going well until yesterday I saw on my finger that I had some wart like things there. They were skin coloured, well slightly whiter and were in a small cluster. I was thinking it was nothing to do with any kind of sexually transmitted infection, but I'm now doubting that, as today I spotted on my upper lip that I have some painless, white bumps, very tiny bumps, they can only be seen when I like stretch up my lip. They too are in clusters. She doesn't show any similar symptoms, so I'm thinking she may have the virus? Please help we are both worried. Thanks in advance.