hpv??

[worried9111]

17 days ago i had protected oral n vaginal intercourse wiz csw
kissed z neck. Sucked z nipple.
in hiv forum told me i dont have exposure to hiv.
my concern is other stds nw
as i had frottage ystr wiz my wife stimulating my penis to her buttoks
then ejaculate all over her back.
nw im concerned abt hpv or other stds which may affect her.
she is breast feeding my 1 month baby
how soon she can test for hpv after such exposure as i heared it tranmitted by breast milk.
thx 4 advance
i dun have any warts so far shall i be worried
can i get tested for hpv.
im 28 yrs male

[john334]

Single exposures to majority of partners do not lead to sti infection. Majority of adults dont carry sti's. Depending on whether the intercourse was protected or not its wise to test for chlamydia and gonorrhea. 2-3 days post exposure would  pick up the infection.

[worried9111]

Thx alot.
one more question plz.
i had only one intercoarse outside my marriage
shall i get teated for std. Or just wait n chk if something goes wrong?

Thx again

[veryworried420]

No, men cannot be tested for HPV. Only a wart on a man can be biopsied and tested. Should you be worried?  Not really. A one time incident rarely results in an infection but the chances are not zero. Certaily, protected sex lowers the risk even more. Women can be tested 2-3 months after exposure but I doubt you have exposed her to it based on what you wrote.