I'm a 20 year old male who had sex with two people, one of which was my former partner..and the other being a sex worker. My former partner, who I thought was the love of my life, and I were together for 3 - 4 years. We were both virgins before our relationship and with no partners before our relationship. Quite some time after our breakup, I had a single protected encounter with a sex worker, who I am sure tests herself regularly for all the major and perhaps not so major STD's, but I don't know at all her HPV status. It's been over a year and a half since then. My former partner has not so long ago expressed her great wish for us to be together again, I had the same feelings as well and want it to happen. However we both come from very very traditional families..especially her, having an STD/STI is unheard of.. I'm almost 100 % sure she didn't have sexual contact after me..
I made a very dumb mistake and it would be devastating for everyone and embarrassing for me if somehow the HPV transmits in case I have it. I don't know what to do, if it was someone else I would talk about it because as I understand it is fairly common and people do not make a big deal out of it. However if I mention it to her it wouldn't end well at all... Should I let her go ?
I don't know what to do, I need help with the science to know where I stand.. maybe I can make her understand.
Thank you very much..