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Girlfriend think i cheated

My girlfriend just found out that she abnormal pap test. She now thinks i cheated on her how can i tell her and show her that i didnt cheat on her it was in my system and i just didnt know about it. This was the first time i have ever heard about HPV what should i do to make our relationship work..... Thanks
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It is impossible for a male to know if they have the virus unless warts are present.  I hate it when I hear 'guy bashing' on this forum because of spreading this disease.  If you don't know you have it how can you know you are spreading it.  I presume since you think it is in your system you have had intimacy with other women before your present girlfriend.  I guess if that is the case you have to fess up to that.  If you haven't been with anyone else then who knows where this virus came from.  I have a quote from one of the doctors on this site that says in regards to cheating...."If HPV is your only susipicion, it has no basis"  I hope everything works out well for you.
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have her go to www.ashastd.org and read up on HPV...also the Experts Forum here by Drs.Hook and Handsfield is a wealth of info on HPV and some other std's.
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