First of all, thank you for this amazing forum.
Secondly, sorry for this long and detailed question, but i am a little worried.
I am a 20 year old female.
I had a boyfriend for 6 months (he is 23, african, circumcised). All we did was unprotected frottage and oral sex. I wasn't his first girl. He already had sex 2 years before me with a girl (also african) that he didn't know. He only did 2 acts of intercourse with this girl and it was protected except for one, when his condom broke. He has never shown any herpes symptom, and he never got sick after these acts. So i don't know if he could have gotten hsv2 from this girl and if he possibly could infect me with the following act:
Once, he inserted the tip of his penis at the entry of my vagina for 5 mins because he wanted to convince me to have sex. We did not have sex. After that we did a very light frottage for 5 mins (not even a frottage only brief touching).
5 minutes after that, he inserted his finger to finger me and he hurt me with his nail (i saw a tiny spot of blood in my vaginal discharge).
I would like to know if this act could possibly infect me with hsv2, especially that after the tip insertion and frottage, he hurt me with his nail. Is it possible, that the virus gotten from the frottage and tip insertion, stay alive on the entry of my vagina for 5 mins, and then travel to the site of the wound and enter my system? Or it is not even possible to get herpes from the from the frottage and tip insertion?
It's been 1 year after we broke up, I have never got any symptom of herpes, and did not got sick after this act.
I was tested for all STDs except hsv1 and hsv2. My results came negative.
5 months after this act, i also did a standard blood test and everything seemed to be normal (leucocyte, lymphocyte...)
Thank you,