so, i guess it makes some sense.. my immune system is working fine, due to the warts appearing, it is an immune response. am i correct? also, i guess the stress and poor hygiene played a role in these warts appearing, correct? thanks for your help. do these points i have made make any sense?
i guess what makes me wonder so much, is when will it go away?
It will go away eventually, unfortunately it is hard to predict the exact time.
if i have not had sex in over 2 years, then why have i not cleared the virus yet? why did the warts just appear? cdc says 90% of people will clear hpv within 2 years. well, have i just gotten infected by it recently somehow?
Not likey a new infection. Although 90% will clear it in 2 years, 10% will not, that is still a significant number. You didn't show symptoms until now, perhaps the infection was dormant, and didn't warrant an immune system response.
i did spend quite a bit of time in and out of the hospitals with a family member who passed away with cancer. could i have picked it up on my hand and then maybe scratched my behind and transmitted it that way?
No, you didn;t get this from the hospital, however the stress of losing family members probably contributed to the outbreak of warts.
For the rest of your post, don't worry it is not all that uncommon for people to experience symptoms long after exposure. Keep clean, eat well, exercise, and generally try to stay healthy as this will improve your immune defenses. There is no way to know if your body has cleared the virus, but the immune system usually does. If you go 6 months without systems, there is a good chance that you have cleared the virus. Although you cannot be sure, the chances of you having the virus isn't that much greater than someone else who hasn't shown symtoms.
HIV test is negative, so worries there. I don't think there is anything wrong with your immune system, you just got worn down with the stress in your life.
Similarily, my warts appeared (or at least were noticed) months after my last sexual encounter, but during a stressful time in my life. I was writing college exams and had to deal with losing a close family member.