* i cant say it 2 my partner
I can understand that in your culture, openness about sexuality is a taboo. Since you are a male and you say you have HPV, I can safely assume you have visible warts.
This is good news to you...visible warts are generally low risk HPV, meaning they won't turn to cancer. Also, your warts should fade over twenty-four months as your immune system starts to clear it.
In a small amount of people, warts can reoccur or be persistent. In such a case you should have a dermatologist treat the warts for you. Most doctors would advise waiting so that your own body would learn how to get rid of the virus. That is preferable because your warts would less likely reoccur. And even if they reoccur, they would be weaker, due to your body's stronger defense.
Yes, nopain... there is not much you can do for the time being but it will go away. If you've only had it one month, have you gone to the doctor and had the HPV warts removed? If so, then you have to wait it out. If you successfully go 3-6 months without any new warts occurring you can consider yourself clear of the virus and virtually confident that they will not return. Until you've gone this period of time, warts may return and you will have to return to the doctor and start your 3-6 over again. It will go away though. If you have sex unprotected between wart break outs it is not guaranteed that she will get them. My ex seems to have escaped my fate in this way. If you can't tell her I guess it all hinges on how far from now you will be getting married.