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i feel betrayed

i am sorry if i come up as a rant is not my intention but i need to blow up some steam and get some info.

i feel betrayed by all the miss information about condom use and it's so called safe sex, i feel betrayed that no one told me that condoms are safe for certain disease only but practically useless for others.

why did i came to learn after more stressing that now i could be harboring a cancerous and highly contagious disease and that doctors only look at you funny when complaining about it.

not too long ago i had sex with a strange woman and i developed small little ping looking things right at the tip of my Johnson, is on my fore skin too.

i have bein stumbling from forum to forum from clinic to clinic just to figure it on my own

why did no one told me before that cancer is a skin to skin contact disease that is highly contagious and that condoms don't do squad to protect you?

i have being std clean for 30 years  i had had very few partners and this experience have being traumatizing worst to me!

the worst part...?
there is a vaccine against it?

before this happening to me i though hpv was something like hiv as a matter of fact i didn't even knew it was an std.

now i come to realized that it's the most common most contagious and deadly virus some one could get and the worst part is that is actually preventable.

i feel that much needed education needs to go main stream about this and that doctors should either learn more about it and not conceal this with their clients, it is now after 10 years and after much reading that i learn that i have hpv on my gums and throat too.

i had 2 doctors looking at it and a 3rd this weekend and none of them either knew or wanted to discuss this with me.

what's the agenda, why we specially men are not being educate about this nasty disease and we take condoms for granted?


if i knew that i had this and how i got it i would of change my habits and my life style long time ago.
not to mention pay for the vaccine.

instead of all those commercials for medicine that can actually exacerbated cancer and tuberculosis some one should put some money together and place some info about this out there.

i feel foolish, ignorant and betrayed.

now my glands are changing colors and this is not psychological can some one point at me some info about cancer because of this? i think i got the serious kind of hpv and is gone to my prostate and i have symptoms and they were before i knew i had this.
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thank you for your quick response, unfortunately for my case i think i got the bad kind and i pass it on to my mouth.

now parts of my tongue are scalping i put apple cider vinegar and this parts turn white not the rest of the tongue is on my lips and ingestive track.
i have bleeding stools for a while is all over me and is rotting me, i hate what i have become is just a matter of time before i get diagnose with cancer.

i am actually planning to buy life insurance instead of medical i don't think i will clear this one up.
i know i sound negative but i know my body pretty well.

the  strand  that i used to have in my throat has actually reactivated.

i have infected my 2 year old son now that i know what i have and how to recognize it.

information on this disease is a bad joke on man they got us all worried about hiv when hiv is not even highly contagious on hetero man not saying less dangerous.

no wonder my whole generation is dying of either prostate, Colo rectal or throat cancer.

and just when i thought i dodge the bullet the bullet came out searching for me.

like i said i don't mean to come off as ranting but just a bit more info on the subject matter won't hurt.

just to finish with my hate speech, there is a thread here on medhelp with over 200 answers of guys asking and saying all of their symptoms, they all sound pretty similar and most assured they only do condom sex.

they have taken every single anti biotic from a to z, anti fungal and herbal supplement yet their symptoms persist.

one of them wonders if this is a new virus strand, other ask... are we putting too much fate in condoms.

science is cruel to man and we are the one that expose the most.

doctors are cruel for not sharing this info and is a shame that we have to find what we got only after a stubborn search.

if any  physician ever read this let me just say that nether cancer nor an std is killing us, is the anguish having symptoms and no idea what to make of them.

thanks for the space to blow my steam i can die in peace now that i know what it's killing me.

i had such a Wright future just ahead of me now i have become dysfunctional, traumatized and diseased.

thank you condom industry.

by the way they work like a tee to prevent hiv.
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Woa, calm down. The vaccine is for people 26 and under. The effectiveness for people your age was never studied and therefore is not advised. Not to mention the vaccine only protects you against the 4 most common strains. There are over 40 genital strains. Condoms provide 50% protection against Herpes and HPV.  This is why the CDC site says the only safe sex is NO sex. Of course, this isn't possible for most people.

Go to a dermatologist and ask for it to be removed. There are several methods. Boost your immune system via vitamins, exercise, reduced drinking, no cigs, more rest, less stress etc. It is not the most deadly virus one can get. Whomever is telling you this is wrong. It is the most contageous though and is, for most, a transient and cosmetic disease. For 90% of the infected, you become not infectious within 12-24 months.

Every year new info on it comes out. Its been around since ancient Egypt times. It does not become cancerous for most people (95%).  In fact, if you have a genital wart this is not the high risk strain that can lead to cancer. Go to a clinic or a urollgist if you have pain or concern. Know the facts and stop the despair as stress makes this worse. The sooner the wart is gone, the sooner you start to recover. Email me if you have more questions.
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