what are the chances i have caught hpv

[SIMONE741]

I slept with a new partner for the first time last nitght and during intercourse i started to give oral sex when i did i noticed a group of pink/red small about 2mm slighytly raised spot like things on his penis they were not around the head but on the shaft i imediatrtley stopped the intercourse and asked what they were and asked if he had warts he told me there was nothing wrong and the doctor had given him cream i told him i did not belive him and couldnt belive he had unprotected sex knowing he was like this i imediattley cleaned myself with disenfectant soap and i have now been crying for 2 days not knowing if i have caught warts or herpes what are the chances of contracting these after one occassion or will i have definatley have now got one of these diseases i am going out of my mind as it says they will not be able to tell at gum clinc unless i have warts/herpes present i am now scared to have sex as i do not want to spread a disease like this is there any other test to be sure i have an allergy to condoms and have been sensible in meeting this person getting to know them and still i feel this has not help prevent me catching an std please help i am going out of my mind with worry x

[alexdelong]

There are a lot of reasons why he might have bumps or irritation. Since he went to the doctor, the doctor probably told him something. You should consider asking him what the marks were.

For herpes there is a test available that will work if you don't have symptoms. Many doctors chose to only test for when symptoms are present though because there are some instances of false positives and some tests are inconclusive. If you tell the doc about your exposure, he or she may suggest the test.

There is no test for warts. There is no cure either. Fortunately, many people don't show any symptoms, and it the virus is cleared by the immune system in a short period of time (most are under a year). The virus that causes warts is not generally associated with cancer, so without symptoms, there is little to worry about. Most sexually active people get at least one strain of HPV in their lifetime, and most of these people do not develop symptoms or complications.

[SIMONE741]

if it is not then what could it be i have been sexually active for many years but have never seen this before it was one group with quite a lot of these bumps do you know of any test which would let me know before any synptons appeared i am hoping i am worrying needlessly but i would not like to infect anybody if i do not know and it is making me feel really worried thnx for responding

[alexdelong]

Is there any reason why you don't believe him? Most people will tell the truth when asked directly.
If he doesn't have warts, you are worrying needlessly.