I have the same problem 6 months now. I was tested for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, urethritis and prostate infection. The doctors can't find anything.
The only relevant thing I found online is a disorder in the balance of good and bad bacteria of the vagina/uturus. In that case they give antibiotics for 1-2 weeks.
But my doctors insist that that happens only in women and they refuse to give me the antibiotics!
Hi, I feel that you may have a prostate infection.It can cause the problems you are speaking of.I would go and get your prostate checked.Get a manual and a blood PSA.If it is prostate they can give you something to cure it up .You may have to take something for 2 to 4 weeks to get rid of it.I would also get rid of the little toy you have it may be helping to stir up the prostate.Get checked asap.Good luck.