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Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 month and we was having sex all the time he cut down a lot saying he was tired for every night it was 2/3 times a week then to 1 time a week and now I'm lucky if I get it 3 times a month and when we do he gets hard easy but he looses it after about 40 seconds we have tried Viagra and he lasted 1 minute I just don't know what to do he won't let me go on top I'm just so frustrated can any body help????
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It depends a bit on your boyfriend's age and stress levels. You need to be able to discuss this more. Your idea of coming on top is a very good one because that takes all the stress to "perform"  off of him. Cialis is probably better than Viagra but better not to use either if possible. Testosterone therapy is another thought but do not push him too hard. This will come right.
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Have a look at few exercises like male deer exercises, kegel exercise, sat kriya. Google these phrases and let him do these exercises. this may help, if he does these exercises for about a month. Try to know if he has started watching porno. One may lose interest in natural sex if they watch porno and masturbate.
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