I forgot to mention, I am male, and it is genitle herpes. SORRY
Most cases of genital herpes due to HSV-1 do not recur frequently, so you sound typical. Go to the MedHelp STD Forum and search the threads for a lot more information on genital herpes due to HSV-1. Or go to the link "STD Quick Facts and Articles on the STD Forum home page and read the article on genital herpes.
HHH, MD