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Large penis

  Every girl I've been intamite with has told me that it hurt and that I had to go easy which made the experience feel "fake "to me and made me feel like a freak. I;ve always used plenty of lubrication but it only helped so much. The girl I'm dating now has wanted to wait before we have sex which is fine with me but I'm not sure if I should tell her now or wait until it happens? I really like her and don't want a repeat of my previous encounters.
  How should I handle this situation?

  Steve
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Well the cat's out of the bag now so to speak. Tonight we were making out on my sofa and alot of touchy feely going on and when she put her hand on my lap she stopped kissing me, looked at my face and said "Oh my God!". She then said she wanted to see it but I knew that she wanted to wait at least a couple of months before we got into a sexual relationship so I told her that we both needed to cool things down and take a step back. I suggested we go for a walk down to the park and although hesitant she agreed. She had a look on her face like a kid who just peeked at their Christmas present but did'nt see what it was. After waiting until I was able to stand up we walked to the park holding hands and talked about what we can both expect when we finally do it.
  We never really talked about it before but she told me that her ex husband was her only sex partner and he had a very small penis. What she does'nt realise is that it is easy to get carried away and she might be in for a painful experience.  I am actually happy that we both decided to wait a while because sex has a way of overtaking everything else in a relationship.

  Steve
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I don't care how big you buddy is... any smart woman would WORK WITH IT.

I try not to get too personal with the sex stuff on here (lord knows how outspoken I am to friends!) but I've seen many a variety in my adult life... It's like opening a package on Christmas morning because every man is different, and you never known what you're gonna get. I have had some major dissapointments... And some big lovely surprizes...

And the point of my story is, I don't care if it looks like a third leg. It's always gonna be better that than the "thumb" guy. LOL Seriously.

I don't feel sorry for you! You'll be fine!

P.S. If you do go too deep and too hard, it can be painful. Just remember that.
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i think that u should be happy with what god gave u
if she really loves u then i think she will like ur penis
it seems like nobody is feeling comfort with his penis !!!
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