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MEN...i also need an honest answer!
gosh, i already feel a little embarassed about posting this question, but i really would like an honest answer! Trying to keep this short,I guess as surprising as it is I have been somewhat naive to the fact that men think large labia minora are disgusting? My husband loves mine (ugh, sorry i am just trying to explain my insecurity)even though i've always felt like I was not sexy "down there". I've asked him about mine before and of COURSE I always get the "i love it" (because he knows if he said anything else he'd never get it! so i will never get a TRUE honest answer) Anyways, the other day a couple of my co workers (one female and one male, sadly regarding a patient)made the remark about a "roast beef *****", and how much would you do "that" for etc (sick, i know)... i had never heard that term but right away I was pretty sure I knew what they were talking about. Just a bit ago I looked up the term online and my suspicions were correct. I truely want to know the general feeling on this. Is it not sexy to have large labia minora? Does having large labia minora mean you have a "loose *****", and are not the "ideal tight..." Sorry to be so descript. Is having larger labia minora mean that your tendency to smell bad down there is greater? Again, I would appreciate honest answers, I am not looking to hear "if your husband enjoys it that is all that matters". I just want to know!!! Thanks to everyone who replies to this.
Having just watched a tv programme where a woman was worried about the size of her labia I have been wondering about whether i should consider surgery to reduce the size of mine..oh how glad I am to have found this forum!! I have always wondered what guys think about big juicy labia and have been pretty self conscious over the years, especially when I was younger. Now older and a bit wiser I've accepted the way I am but until now never realised that many guys found them such a turn-on. My thanks go out to you lovely men who appreciate that big is beautiful and that what nature gave us is absolutely perfect just as they are..time to say goodbye to the last remnants of self consciousness in the labia department! x
Yup, i tried to tuck it too.
I always wondered if somthing was seriously wrong with mine, like cancer or somthing, because all the other girls at my school wouldnt have huge bumps in their pants like mine.
I feel a little bit more normal now, much thanks.
In fact, i feel at a bit of an advantage...;)
I always wondered if somthing was seriously wrong with mine, like cancer or somthing, because all the other girls at my school wouldnt have huge bumps in their pants like mine.
I feel a little bit more normal now, much thanks.
In fact, i feel at a bit of an advantage...;)
We don't really look at erotic pics together no, but I know he looks at this type of thing frm time to time, and so do I.
I have to admit I do feel better about myself since finding this forum, and no longer the freak I once felt like.
I used to not shave down there as I hoped I could cover them up, but now I realise I probably made it look worse!
I also used to worry when in my teens what boys would think and if they would tell their friends my vagina was different from other girls.
In the showwrs at school I used to try and tuck the inner labia into the outer labia to hide them. Has anyone else done this?! What a funny question to ask I guess!!
I have to admit I do feel better about myself since finding this forum, and no longer the freak I once felt like.
I used to not shave down there as I hoped I could cover them up, but now I realise I probably made it look worse!
I also used to worry when in my teens what boys would think and if they would tell their friends my vagina was different from other girls.
In the showwrs at school I used to try and tuck the inner labia into the outer labia to hide them. Has anyone else done this?! What a funny question to ask I guess!!
Well, you may not find them sexy, but look on this thread - lots of men do. Obviously, we're going to have to "agree to disagree" on this issue. Do what makes you happy :)
PrettyPolly;
I bet he does like them. Maybe he knows you're shy about the topic. Do you and he view erotic photographs together? You could always point out a woman with large labia and ask what he likes about her.
Morgannon
PrettyPolly;
I bet he does like them. Maybe he knows you're shy about the topic. Do you and he view erotic photographs together? You could always point out a woman with large labia and ask what he likes about her.
Morgannon
I have also worried about mine as well since I was about 14. I'm 32 now and still have never spoken about them to anyone, even though I have has sexual relationships and am now married with 2 children.
My husband seems to like them but I am too shy to bring it up in conversation. I think he knows how I feel as he has never mentioned it.
I know I am normal, but I don't like the way they look.
My husband seems to like them but I am too shy to bring it up in conversation. I think he knows how I feel as he has never mentioned it.
I know I am normal, but I don't like the way they look.
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