In general I don't think masturbation is a problem. In fact, to reduce risk of prostate cancer, it is a good idea for men to ejaculate reasonably regularly.
It is only a problem if it becomes obsessive to the extent that affects other areas of your life, or (if you are in a relationship) it is reducing your ability to have satisfying sex with your partner.
Well, that's my opinion anyway!
Only to tell you, you will feel good about youself, once you stop. If you stop long enough you will begin to have wet dreams again. This may take a few months, but once the wet dreams begin, they should be on a regular basis. Perhaps a few times a month. This is the NATURAL way. Masturbation is a NORMAL way to rid ourselves of sperm build up. It is NORMAL to have a cold, but it is not NATURAL. In other words, it is not the way we are made to go around 100% of the time to have a cold.
wow i will try that but it isvery hard but i will believe in myself
i definently agree with you, to use the cold example like you did, a cold is normal but noone likes them and you definently don't want to have it forever. lately i've actually had my habit deteriorate so i was wondering if any of you had any tips? my ideas are only good for so long and honestly i can't seem to get past a maximum of a week. i feel great after 3 ish days after it happens and right about that time the urges come back again, anyway any ideas from you guys how to keep it under control? i've noticed that wet dreams actually are a problem though because the next day the erges are really bad
When one is excited he has generated energy.Sexual energy is the strongest energy.sexual energy onn be converted into mentl energy.If one goes through taoist yoga or kundalini yoga, one will find some technique to convert this energy.It is a uphill task. but once successful one can transform oneself in all the areas of life.
One can learn this technique from yoga, tao, or tantric sex.It is a fascinating subject.Excuse me for the spelling errors as i can hardly read what i have typed without magnifying glass.
I want to thank you for your comments. Hope this helps many
I'll try it ......... I got in the habit when I was 16 and it got worse from there....now I can't sleep right if I don't do it, and am naked........
I am trying so far I went 3 days.......but it's hard.
Me and my best friend have been talking alot about this this weekend ..... he strugled with it too, he's down to two or three a month.
It's not a crime.....I don't think....but it's deffently can develope into a bad habbit. I was going to see this friend and I was going to be gone along time, and I was a lil worried of how I was going to deal with it ......I did it once more in the airport bathroom, then went a week and a couple days, before I broke down and did it in his shower.......
He told me he even did it in his car if when bored.....and yes even in his friends bed when they were right there......asleep.
It's nice, and I don't doubt healthy, but it can get too ugly. I'll try this routine, but I just like to add one or two sugestions.......Read the bible......I know this sounds odd, but it may get your mind off it,.. also find a buddy you can trust, brother frirend, even if it's your sister. I don't care, if you're close to somebody, find him/her and let them know what's going on. ...... I've done this with my friend.......when you feel the erg, text em or tell em, I'm horny and can't help it .......you might pull it off, but you'll be thinking about your friend, and the comitment you've made to him/her, and to yourself.....kinda hard to explane but I think you all get me ;-)
Good luck everybody, and god bless
when ever happens to see pretty sexy things accidentedly.. And it keeps bothering u.. Dont get fustrated or irritate.. Have an intention to fantasy on next day morning.. Eg 6am to 7am? If u missed.. have another intention on "next morning". My sperm is getting older and older.
I tried some of the helpful tips u guys recommended. It worked better for me with "next morning". Great to live a confidence, healthy life. Good luck follows too..
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