Hi! I have a very urgent problem!
First some background. I never had sex and I do not masturbate. I sometimes get aroused but my orgasms are limited to wet dreams (which I keep getting less frequently, I think there is about a year between the last one and the one before that. They used to be much more frequent than that). Because my orgasms used to hurt really badly (they do not anymore) I am afraid of them and dislike getting them.
When I was around 18 I started to get wet dreams and they were very painful. But the more orgasms I have had in the past the less painful my orgasms are. Now my orgasms do not hurt anymore. However recently (I am around 30 now) I started to feel spontaneous orgamsms in public. I have had that 3 times now and though I could hold it in it is really annoying and prevents me from functioning properly.
So basically I need to get rid of my spontaneous orgasms.
Does anyone know what might be going on with me and how I can solve this? I am pretty desperate!