Feel Good Friday

[mapes10]

I just wanted to say how happy I am to be a part of this group.  I think we all have other forums that we visit, but I've noticed some pretty heated discussions and fiery tempers in those places.  I feel like we always welcome everyone here, and most people seem to feel like they can stick around and be a part of our group.  I know that sounds silly, but even though I'm pregnant this is by far the place I visit most.  Thanks again for being so wonderful!!!

[kgokgo]

It`s funny coz just the other day I was also thinking that if I get my BFP, I`m going nowhere coz this is my home. I don`t think I`d feel welcome anywhere else. The ladies here are so fantastic. People even respond politely to inappropriate questions.

[Latrice414]

I just want to say YOU GUYS ARE GR8888888888888.

[nunu1977]

I just sent them an email stating our cause. I do think that the more they get the more chance of us getting one.
their  concern was that the M/C forum would die out and no one would use it. unfortunately I think that there is a steady flow of new ladies to the m/c forum (I say unfortunately because any lady joining the m/c means not good news has happened!) that are going though a m/c that it wont affect it too much.

[bam1014]

Do you think it would help to have multiple people e-mail them?  Almost a petition like?

[smr08]

I agree with all of you. When I joined this group everyone welcomed me with open arms. The support that I received here has helped me so much with my healing. Every question is answered with respect and knowledge. I am also ttc so let me know whats going to happen. Thanks to all!

                               Lori

[nunu1977]

Ill email them again and ask. if not, I like your idea about about starting our own click! it wouldn't be too hard.

[bam1014]

I think that makes sense nunu.  I feel the same way.  Can we lobby AP to ask for it?  I know you did once, but we have SO many ladies TTC now that maybe they will change their mind.

Or we could all just trapse over to a different forum and set up our own click :)

[nunu1977]

I do feel bad sometimes because the new ladies on this forum are usually just going threw a m/c and we are already in the TTC stage. It must be hard for them to read some of our posts... we are OPKing and POAS and taking meds to O etc... I know we can still support them and give advice and incite to what we have been through, but its kind of a mix in here. I still think they need to start a TTC after m/c forum. that way we can still be apart of this one but still talk about the TTC without making anyone feel sad. Does that make sense?

[Dani711]

Mapes, I am so with you.  I am on other forums since I am pregnant and really thought that since we are all due around the same month that there would be more of a sense of what we get here.  There are a couple people that have been great..but it just isn't the same as I feel here!  I would say it has something to do with what we have all been through, but even this forum wasn't all that great when i first joined...it has only been since all of you have been on here together that has made it such a great place...so THANKS everyone!

[GMB08]

i agree.....i only come here mostly.....i may read stuff...but never jump in.......this is our cyber home!

[nunu1977]

you know I was on ADHD forum as well because of my stepson... I cant be bothered with the negative response a lot of them have to things. judging everyone as though every ADHD symptom or person is the same! Grrrrrr

[steph9803]

I'll second that. I tried the ADHD forum for about a day before I saw how catty they can be. It stinks that people have to be that way. This is the best place with the best people ever :D I would be sad if you didn't come back around. I plan on staying here when I get my BFP too...I can't imagine just forgetting about all of you that have helped me through one of the hardest times of my life.

[bam1014]

Mapes I agree with you 100%!!!  I have tried to post in other forums, but if you aren't already part of the click then almost nobody responds.  I love that we try to keep things so positive and don't post controversy.

I think it is fantastic how wondefully supportive this group of women are and so inviting to the newbies.  So if there are any lurkers out there, you can be assured that this is a safe place to post.

[nunu1977]

this is the only forum im usually on. I was thinking the other day when I get preggers I dont think I could leave the friends ive made on here and how weird it wold be to go to the pregnancy forums.